We Are More by Emily Wierenga (Plus a Book Giveaway)

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Today we're taking a break from the Mixed-Up Faith series, and Emily Wierenga is sharing here to celebrate the release of her new book, Mom in the Mirror. You can check out the book trailer here. And be sure to see details at the bottom of the post on how you can win a copy! +++++++++++ We are the heartbeat of the home. But more than that, sisters... We are the heartbeat of the world. I see a woman’s Facebook status rejoicing that she’s lost 45 pounds, and multitudes are clicking “like” and it’s near-triggering me to check what I’m eating, to hop back on that anorexic train to skinny-ville. And I think we can be more. More than our weight, more than our looks, more than our jean size, because I have two chubby-faced boys staring up at me as I write and they … [Read more...]

God in the sun and the rain

Storm Front

This week, God has been brought into the discussion about the weather rather a lot. There was a questionable tweet. There was an awkward interview. I understand it. When tragedy strikes, we want to better understand why. So we look for someone to blame for the horror or someone to thank when that horror is escaped. And while God seems like the perfect scapegoat or hero, I can't help but wonder if that's not the most helpful way to deal with these situations. If God sent the storm as punishment, then that seems both arbitrary and non-helpful. What is the lesson? That God hates school? That God isn't a fan of family homes? Most parents will agree that if you need to discipline a child, that lesson needs to apply to what the child has done wrong. The most effective lessons tend to be … [Read more...]

The Christian Guide to Atheists: Atheists Don’t Think They Sin

The Christian Guide to Atheists

(Quick comment: Welcome to new readers over from the r/atheism channel and those here from Rachel's blog! If you're just catching up on the series, you can read all of my posts here, and catch all of Daniel's posts here. Thanks for stopping by!) Myth: Atheists refuse to accept that they sin This is probably not technically a misconception about atheists. Most atheists would probably say that they do not sin. In fact, the mention of sin to an atheist will probably result in confusion or scorn. So why am I including it in the series? This is another one where I think the language that we use is causing more harm than good. "Sin" is a very church-y word. When I talk about sin with any of my atheist friends, it is more likely than not that they will hear me speaking about … [Read more...]

Ask a Mixed Faith Couple

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I have been a big fan of Rachel Held Evans's "Ask A..." series since its inception. I always enjoy reading through the questions and I have been consistently impressed by the answers given. So I'm really excited and a little bit nervous to be participating in the series with my atheist husband Jason (Because that's his primary job, right? Being an atheist?)! Excited because it's always an honor to talk about our marriage, nervous because there have been some pretty stellar entries in that series and it's kind of intimidating. Today you can head over to Rachel's blog and ask us the pressing questions that you've always wanted to know about being married to someone who doesn't share your belief system. The way this works is that you can ask questions and vote for your favorite questions … [Read more...]

Syndicated at BlogHer

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Once again I have the honor of being syndicated over at BlogHer. A few weeks ago, I wrote a piece supporting the atheist bloggers who have been jailed in Bangladesh and Heather at BlogHer has chosen to run it there. I just want to take this opportunity to once again thank you for allowing me to write about things that aren't always what Christian bloggers are supposed to write about. Thanks for sticking around when I write about friendship or interfaith marriage or The Walking Dead. You help make this fun. I'm going to be sending you all over today, but I'd love it if you'd stop by BlogHer and join in the conversation there. If this is your first time here, welcome! Spend some time looking around and be sure to connect with me on Facebook and … [Read more...]

Poiema

In darkness...

Unregenerate. Sinner. Wretch. Spider. Hearts full of deceit that fall short of the glory of God. Churches expend energy declaring the worthlessness of the people in the pews. Concerned that darkness may go unnoticed, constant reminders that we are unlovable are given so none forget. Forgetting is hard. In angry words... In harsh thoughts... In ignored injustices... No, we don't forget. But we have forgotten that we are a masterpiece. A work of art crafted by the Giver of good gifts. We are divine poetry, fearfully and wonderfully made. Transformed. Righteous. Beloved. New. Poiema. … [Read more...]

When They Said I Don’t Know Jesus by Sarah McCarten

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  One of the things I love about this series is that I have the opportunity to share stories that help to stretch our ideas of what "interfaith" means. Today's post by Sarah shows us once again that interfaith can be something more than just different religions. If you’d like to contribute, check out the details here. +++++++++++++ My mother saw him in town; he was giving out tracts about Jesus. She saw him quite frequently, since she did her banking for work on Wednesday lunchtime and he’d been giving out tracts in town at that time for longer than we’d known him. As usual they exchanged pleasantries and when he asked about my sister and me, my mother told him I was to study theology that autumn. He choked, on air, like literally couldn’t stop coughing at the fact … [Read more...]

The Christian Guide to Atheists: Atheists Believe They are God

The Christian Guide to Atheists

  Myth: Atheists believe they are God As I have worked through this series, one of the things that has surprised me is just how many beliefs that Christians have about what or who atheists worship. A number of the misconceptions that I have come across are variations on a theme and that theme is that everyone must worship something. Sometimes the belief is that if atheists don't worship something externally, they must turn that focus inward and worship themselves by believing that they are God. Sometimes this is borne out of the idea that in order to be an atheist, one must assert an absolute knowledge that there is no God. If one conveys any kind of certainty in the lack of God, they can encounter the accusation that they are somehow omniscient and/or omnipresent. Ipso … [Read more...]

The Difference Between Being Friendly and Being Friends

Boxes

I write about friendship here. A lot. I've written about my closest friends and why I call them my best friends. And last month, I wrote about why I don't want diverse friends. When I wrote that, my friend Leigh Kramer pushed back a little in the comments. She said, in part, "...not many people seek out friendship with those who are different from them and I think we all miss out when this happens. Having a diverse group of friends requires some intentionality." I think this is an important point, and something that I missed in that post. I have not always been good about this. Much of my life, I have only sought friends in the places where I was comfortable. I wasn't looking for ways to shut out people who were different from me, but I also wasn't going outside of what I already … [Read more...]

Featured at BlogHer

Diversity

I'm happy to announce that some of my writing is being featured over at BlogHer today. Heather has chosen to include a bit from my piece about why I don't want diverse friends. I really appreciate the conversation that has resulted from that post and I look forward to seeing more at BlogHer. I'd love it if you'd click over to BlogHer and participate in any discussion there. And if you're new to the blog, welcome! I would love it if you'd connect with me on Facebook and Twitter!   Image: OregonDOT via Flickr … [Read more...]