Friendship and Attraction (Part 5)

Friendship & Attraction

On Friday, I wrote about why I hate the phrase "emotional affair" and discussed what emotional infidelity is not. But as much as I think we overuse the phrase, emotional infidelity can absolutely occur in marriages, and it can be very damaging to the marriage relationship.  As I mentioned in the last post, fidelity is, "faithfulness to a person, cause, or belief demonstrated by continuing loyalty and support." I'd like to break it down to its most basic parts, which I think could be "continuing faithfulness." Attachments that interrupt that continuing faithfulness are what I would like to discuss here. I don't believe that any one person can meet all of our emotional needs. Early in our marriage, I thought that Jason was supposed to meet all of my needs. As a result, I felt emptiness … [Read more...]